We All Can Win: Why This Has to Be The Core Focus In All That We Create

One thing I discovered when grabbing barbeque with a friend in D.C. last year was the anxiety of planning out what our 2018 should look like. It’s a universal emotion that a lot of us feel as we try to figure out our future, pay our student loans, attend a brunch or two, and simultaneously work to build entities that will succeed, grow, and that truly make an impact. The problem is the overwhelming burnout that happens when we’re constantly building and doing everything by ourselves. We’re all so focused on building our own legacies that oftentimes by doing that we limit what can happen if we build together.

There’s a Greater Sense Of Achievement When You Win With Your Crew

Issa Rae and Ava Duvernay are great examples of what it means to reap the benefits of the seeds you planted long ago. What's so beautiful and impactful about their genius is that it extends beyond their solo achievements because they make an intentional effort to network across instead of networking up, as Issa Rae put it. In other words, when they win they bring their people with them. Issa believes in incorporating the talent around her because she knows her people want to tell brilliant narratives and are fully capable of doing so with access to the right opportunities, and those opportunities often come when one person wins and extends a hand to another. She also gives intentional shoutouts to the brilliant women directors and producers who put in work on every single episode of Insecure and Ava Duvernay implements this same behavior by making sure we know the incredibly talented artists who work on the beautifully-shot and intoxicatingly-scripted episodes of Queen Sugar. Sharing our success by keeping the door open for our counterparts is how we erase being the anomalies of great storytellers and instead solidify the standard for our narratives. 

Diversification Of Ideas and Skill Are Imperative When You’re Creating Anything

The limitations of our own mindset and point-of-view are often our enemy. When your goal is to plan a large event or build a company – whether it’s a non-profit or corporation – or develop an app or physical product – it’s important to bring with it more than one set of eyes or one perspective. It’s too easy to miss the mark when it comes to branding something because of a little thing called human error. The way you target people correctly is by understanding the audience you want to reach, and if you’re not in that audience, or at times even if you are, it’s invaluable to include people who have a different perspective than you. Having a multifaceted and multi-cultural team will always propel you past your competition and strengthen you in both the short and long term.

Reflection, Improvement, and Advancement Come With Teamwork

You can’t always critique yourself. Realistically, sometimes you’re so wound up in who you are (your feelings, your emotions, and your state-of-mind) that nothing can penetrate your thought-process. How many of us need that tell-it-like-it-is friend? How many of us need that swift kick in the ass to make a move? WE. ALL. DO. Whether the people you need around you are friends, family or work colleagues, they all play a pivotal role in you moving to the next tier whether personally or professionally. It’s especially important for teams that you work on to be able to reflect on the past work you’ve done and have a vision for where you’re heading. As an extrovert, I stan for teamwork because of the unmatched synergy that comes along with it, but beyond that, I also see the value it holds in propelling you forward. After all, duplicating similar ideas results in less impactful outcomes but fusing together brilliance can create a project that’s a force of nature. 

There Are Levels To Building, You Don’t Have To Invest All Of Yourself In Another Person Or Team

A big reason why we’re scared to build with other people is that we fear that we’ll have to be really committed like it’s a relationship or a 9-5 job, but that's not the case. Working with someone can be within the confines of an annual or semi-annual event. Think Essence Festival, SXSW or even more small-scale – an online workshop or masterclass you host with someone. Not everyone is meant to be your full-time business partner. The key to finding solid teammates is to get to know people through-and-through. Maybe you’re not building a business with someone else but at the very least you can collaborate with them. You’ll learn how to work with people professionally and you’ll either make money or grow your respective audiences.

Think of partnership as manifesting at least twice as much abundance as you would alone. We all can win and there's no reason why we shouldn't if we continue to pass the torch of strategy and opportunity. 

We’re entering into the second quarter of the year and all that 2018 has to offer is yours, let’s continue to work with each other to make it outstanding and fruitful.

Xoxo

Sincerely, Ang.